10 Commandments for Observing and Decoding Nonverbal Communications Successfully
Commandment 1: Be a competent observer of your environment
Commandment 2: Observing in context is key to understand
Commandment 3: Learn to recognize and decode nonverbal behaviors that are universal
Commandment 4: Learn to recognize and decode idiosyncratic# nonverbal behaviors
Commandment 5: When you interact with others, try to establish their baseline behaviors
Commandment 6: Always try to watch people for multiple tells – behaviors that occur in clusters or in succession
Commandment 7: It’s important to look for changes in a person’s behaviors that can signal changes in thoughts, emotions, interest, or intent
Commandment 8: Learning to detect false or misleading nonverbal signals is also critical
Commandment 9: Knowing how to distinguish between comfort and discomfort will help you to focus on the most important behaviors for decoding nonverbal communications
Commandment 10: When observing others, be subtle about it
#a signal that is particularly unique to a particular individual
Joe Navarro – What Every Body is Saying
Teh O lawan Teh Tarik
Seorang jutawan pernah menasihati saya ketika kami sedang bersarapan. Di hadapan kami terdapat 2 gelas. Gelas pertama berisi teh O dan yg kedua berisi teh tarik. Nasihatnya kepada saya, setiap drpd kita inginkan teh tarik, tetapi buat masa ini, apa yang ada di hadapan kita hanyalah teh O dan itu sahaja yg kita mampu pada masa ini. Jangan lepaskan peluang, dapatkan teh O. Kita hanya perlu menjualkan teh O itu dan menambah sedikit wang lagi bagi memiliki teh tarik. Tetapi apabila pada masa kita mampu dan bersedia bagi memiliki teh tarik tanpa perlu menjualkan teh O maka, kita tidak perlu melepaskan teh O itu.
Kaya dengan Rumah – Syamsuddin Abdul Kadir
Analoginya, teh O ibarat rumah apartmen, manakala teh tarik ibarat rumah teres 2 tingkat. Memang sukar untuk dapatkan penyewa yang terpaksa membayar wang yang lebih demi keselesaan berbanding rumah apartmen. Shamsuddin telah memberi pengajaran yang bermakna kepada saya.
Bagi sesiapa yang ingin menyewa lot kedai Season Square di Damansara Damai (teh tarik saya) di tingkat dua bolehlah menghubungi saya. Luas 454 sqft. Berdekatan dengannya ada McD dan terminal bas yang sedang dalam pembinaan.
http://www.mmail.com.my/content/13015-bus-terminal-damai-damansara-residentsKomen dari hartanah otai tentang season square,
http://tipshartanah.wordpress.com/2006/11/10/seasons-square-damansara-damai/Top 10 Reasons to take an MBA
* Article adapted from various sources. You may be a fresh graduate from college or one with some working experience. Perhaps you want to do something more with your life, something with a higher purpose. Well have you ever thought about pursuing an MBA? As the pace of change accelerates, we can take comfort in knowing that the Masters in Business Administration (MBA) degree is still a ‘constant’ worth embracing. Indeed for many, an MBA continues to be the cornerstone for the success they’re looking for. There’re many reasons why an MBA might be perfect for you. Here are the top 10 reasons why you should take the plunge:
1. Earn a widely-recognized top credential An MBA is a degree, granted after one to two years of graduate-level university study that provides training in both the theory and practice of business management. It certifies that you have a general competency in all the major functional management roles in the modern corporation. In fact, an MBA is recognized throughout the world as a *high-level* credential and may be your passport to a promising career.
2. Flexible study arrangements:- Full time, part time and online program are available. MBA programs can be taken at your chosen pace but must be completed within a maximum of five years. Some MBA programs are designed to minimize disruption to normal work demands and home life, so even if you are still studying or working, you could choose to attend classed in the evenings and the occasional weekends.
3. An increase in earnings potential. From an income point of view, statistics show that on average, a person with an MBA will start off at about 12% more than someone with a basic degree. Ten percent more each month for one year is 120% and in a 10 year span, that amounts to a very large sum. Your MBA is an investment in yourself and as with any other investment, you have to decide if the potential return is worth the time and money spent.
4. Greater opportunities to work in a country or geographical region of your choice. One word: mobility. Everyone hits the wall at some point and longs for an opportunity with more responsibility and different duties. MBA programs give you the competitive edge you need to separate yourself from the competition. An MBA degree can also be used to improve social, environmental and economic standards in private and non-profit businesses throughout the world.
5. Grow your networking resources. An MBA acts like a magnet attracting talented people from every corner of society. These professional relationships will serve you well throughout your career, providing essential mentoring and contacts. Such networking is not limited to fellow students but includes internship opportunities, drawing upon a highly qualified faculty. These qualities make the fabric of the MBA experience a good and comfortable fit for almost anyone.
6. Polish your communication skills. Communication skills are just as if not more important than the other business analysis skills as it is the key to business success. A survey conducted by the Association to Advance Collegiate Schools of Business rated listening skills and the ability to manage change in the workplace as the most crucial skills to succeed in today’s business.
7. Advancement in Career. MBA also at times serves as an entry ticket to many organizations, whose doors are open most exclusively for MBA graduates. A Master of Business Administration prepares you for a managerial role in your current field, whether or not you’re already in the business world. Medical professionals, publishing professionals, real estate agents and tech support specialists are among the many that benefits from an MBA degree and attain a more rewarding position in their existing career.
8. A chance to learn standard tools for organizing business activity and managing business processes. MBA is a managerial qualification that is all about learning leadership. MBA provides the tools, techniques and resources needed to run a business, namely risk management plans, performances plans, and project management as well as marketing plans. Managing a business is a strategic asset. Just like job promotions, you get recognized for the work you’ve already done and not based on the work you are going to do. Start taking up more responsibilities in handling business activities both in good and hard times as you will never know when you will be facing a crisis in future.
9. Be your Own Boss with an MBA. If you have an entrepreneurial spirit, an MBA course can help you reach your goals. The leadership skills and management training gained can be turned into something profitable which includes bringing a new business to life. If you have the creativity, people skills and drive to start a business, a good graduate program will train you in critical areas like business planning, venture financing and small business management.
10. Gain an in-depth understanding of the business world. The world of business is ever changing and complex. It is composed of many fields and principles that all interact with each other at the same time. An MBA program is a well-rounded degree that covers a variety of business areas for an in-depth picture of the business world.
Did any of these 10 reasons appeal to your situation? Well whatever your reason for getting an MBA may be, the bottom line is that an MBA will teach you a lot about business in response to the challenges of today’s fast paced and increasingly complex global business environment. As much as it is a hefty investment on your part, it could open doors of opportunities that were closed to you before. Good luck!
Surah2 Amalan Nabi Dalam Sembahyang
Subuh,
Surah Al-Rum, Qaf, idza zulzilat, qul audzubirabbinnas, qul audzubirabbil falaq, dan ayat terpanjang qadar 60 ayat dan 100 ayat. Dalam musafir dibaca idzas shamsu kuwwirat. Pada malam Jumaat dibaca alif lam mim sajadah rakaat pertama dan hal ata alal insan rakaat yang kedua.
Isya’,
Surah was syamsi, sabbihisma rabbikal aala, wallaili, idzas sama unfatorat, idzas sama unsyaqqat, wassama idzatil buruj, wassamai wattoriq.
Tinta Kalimah2 Allah Bukan Hanya Seluas Lautan
Katakanlah (wahai Muhammad): “Kalaulah semua jenis lautan menjadi tinta untuk menulis Kalimah-kalimah Tuhanku, sudah tentu akan habis kering lautan itu sebelum habis Kalimah-kalimah Tuhanku, walaupun Kami tambahi lagi dengan lautan yang sebanding dengannya, sebagai bantuan.
Surah Al Kahfi (109)
Please take a minute to jot down what Allah had given to you. Try to make your hard disk full!
AXIATA 3 month low of RM2.91 (TP RM3.81)
AXIATA Group pulled back to a three-month low of RM2.91 during intra-day session amid extended correction yesterday. Apparently, the moving average convergence/divergence indicator is bearish, trending sharply below the trigger line, but prices may stage a rebound soon as they have been grossly oversold. Resistance is expected at RM3.09-RM3.10 band, followed by RM3.27. As for the downside, important support is pegged at the 100-day simple moving average of RM2.86
Tarikh berlakunya Hari Kiamat
Dan mereka bertanya: “Bilakah datangnya hari pembukaan bicara yang dikatakan itu jika betul kamu orang-orang yang benar?”
Katakanlah (wahai Muhammad):”(Tidak perlu diketahui masa datangnya tetapi mesti dipercayai bahawa) pada hari pembukaan bicara itu, tidak ada gunanya lagi kepada orang-orang kafir kiranya mereka hendak beriman, dan mereka pula tidak akan diberi tempoh (berbuat demikian)
As Sajdah (28-29)
Tatkala orang2 kafir musyrik bertanya secara mengejek: Bilakah berlakunya hari kemenangan kamu hai orang-orang Islam, Maka Allah Ta’ala perintahkan Nabi Muhammad (SAW) menjawab: bahawa hari kemenangan itu akan tiba dengan tidak syak lagi. Pada hari itu – hari kiamat- tidak berguna lagi bagi orang-orang kafir iman mereka kiranya mereka hendak beriman, dan mereka pula tidak akan diberi tempoh untuk bertaubat.
MBA fee UIAM vs UM
UIAM 8 Semester, 31 Courses.
Total cost: RM18,500
UM must be achieved below 10 semester
Total cost: RM19, 363.
Semua org beriman akan masuk syurga?
Komen seorg sahabat, kita ni walau jahat macamana pun, selagi kita beriman akan dimasukkan ke dalam neraka, dan akhirnya akan dimasukkan ke dalam syurga. Betulkah begitu?
(Aku diberi kuasa) hanya menyampaikan (wahyu) dari Allah dan perintah2 Nya (yang ditugaskan kepadaku menyampaikannya); dan sesiapa yang menderhaka kepada Allah dan ingkarkan bawaan RasulNya, maka sesungguhnya disediakan baginya neraka Jahannam; kekallah mereka di dalamnya selama2nya.
Surah Al Jinn (23)
Selama2 nya? Nauzubillah.
